Space..
What strikes to your mind when you read this word... The outer space..The space that has satellites.. The galaxy space... The space in your room... The space you left for writing few extra lines in exams. eh??
But for me today..
Space is about how much air you give to your friends, family and partner to breathe. How much you let them live their life. It's about letting them know that they have their own world as well besides you and that you never want the key to it.
Space is all about letting your friends enjoy their special moments and not interrupting. It's about blinding your eyes to them no matter how much you love them. Like one of my friends say.. there are times when you need "me" time. Similarly.. there are times when your near ones need their "me" time or rather they need "their time". As a matter of fact that "their" time could be their "me" time or their time with someone else.
It's about keeping your distance from them sometimes and understanding the virtual boundaries. There are times when the you'll be tempted to say or be with them. But then some of those times are exactly when you should not surrender to the temptation. You gotta respect. Respect your friends and family. You gotta respect your loved one.
Your ticket to space lies with them. And it's up to them when they feel you're worthy enough of getting it.
What strikes to your mind when you read this word... The outer space..The space that has satellites.. The galaxy space... The space in your room... The space you left for writing few extra lines in exams. eh??
But for me today..
Space is about how much air you give to your friends, family and partner to breathe. How much you let them live their life. It's about letting them know that they have their own world as well besides you and that you never want the key to it.
Space is all about letting your friends enjoy their special moments and not interrupting. It's about blinding your eyes to them no matter how much you love them. Like one of my friends say.. there are times when you need "me" time. Similarly.. there are times when your near ones need their "me" time or rather they need "their time". As a matter of fact that "their" time could be their "me" time or their time with someone else.
It's about keeping your distance from them sometimes and understanding the virtual boundaries. There are times when the you'll be tempted to say or be with them. But then some of those times are exactly when you should not surrender to the temptation. You gotta respect. Respect your friends and family. You gotta respect your loved one.
Your ticket to space lies with them. And it's up to them when they feel you're worthy enough of getting it.
and the problems start in your life when you enters in someone's space.
ReplyDeletevery nicely conveyed the message dear.
Thanks Varun... what you said is absolutely right !
ReplyDeleteGood post Taniya. When we expect a lot, we forget about their "me time". We start questioning their love and affection which is wrong.
ReplyDeleteYup niks... totally agreed :)
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