Crossroads

There are times when you'll find yourself standing at the crossroads. You would have to decide to travel the path less traveled or otherwise. There won't be anyone to guide you or rather to tel you right or wrong. It's only your gut feeling that you would have to rely upon. There's no certainty as to which ones more beneficial or appropriate.

I'm sure we all have been at various crossroads in the journey of our life. We've faced difficult situations. Situations like deciding what course to study, which company to apply for , what to wear and what to order.. whom to talk too and to whom not to talk too, whose guidance we should follow and whose words to ignore..

There also will be times when you will find yourself standing in the middle. Hypothetically, two of your friends fought and both of them ran crying. To whom do you run too first? The friend whose been hurt or the friend who was logically right? There might be times when you'll have to decide whose call to pick. Your best friend or your girl friend. Without thinking much you pick a call but the other one's bound to get angry. How do you really tackle such situations?

What's the best remedy in these cases? Shall we leave things and let life take care of it with its auto mechanism or should we go ahead and take a stand. Give explanations as to why we did something and why we didn't do something.

Is there any handbook or map that shows if we should turn left or right at such crossroads? or  is there any hidden secret for the same? 

Just in case anyone of you finds it or has it.. Please pass it on.. The help would be appreciated. !!