Is it the real one?

We all have been dreaming about Love.. Since childhood our mom's used to tell us stories. Fairy tales that would revolve around love.. Remember Cinderella ? The Snow white and the seven dwarfs? The beauty and the beast? Love where the prince would come around.. He would search for you and lookout for you.. and in the end will always find you.. He'll be there when you need him the most.. But then again  what exactly is love???

Love is something we wait for.. It's something we have always dreamed about... 

We all imagine our first kiss.. How it would be.. How exactly we're gonna do it.. or if we goof up about it.. But then again it just flows.. like love...

We imagine how our first I love will you be... How we're gonna say it or how we would want somebody to say it.. The way I would want my guy to bring that solitaire and surprise me or with him just bending down on a knee and doing the cliche thing..

BUT....

We never imagine our first heartbreak... Do we...? That's probably because its too painful to even imagine... We never want to believe that the one we love can leave us... It's like doubting the existence of ever afters and eternities... It's like saying forever and believing in death...We never want to imagine the loss that we can have.. Be it loss of a parent, a friend, a loved one, a pet or just about our favorite  piece of clothing...

On the contrary...the pain of love is what truly changes us... It's loosing of love that makes us who we are... It's the loss that teaches you where you went wrong.. The path that was not wrong.. But was the path of learning.. Loosing someone or something tells me why it happened.. What I should have done to avoid it.. or rather.. sometimes we loose it just to find something better and more meaningful... 

So It's your call now.. either moan about the loss or just wait for the better one to walk up to you.. and in the mean while.. just imagine.. Imagine how you'd want it to be.. 

All the best !!