Should we be scared of Change??

In life one always has to change... Like its said... Change is the only constant...

But what if that constant is pushing another constant into a variable... something that you don't really want....

Doesn't make sense?? I'll explain

Let's say you have a few things which are constant in your life... Things you know will never change.. Like your habits, your liking, your memories , your manners, your behavior etc.

and what if these constants are actually being pushed away from you and made to become variables... I don't mean variables in literal sense but rather by variables I mean something that changes but not due to your will....

The equations in life change in such a manner that you are left with no option... 

You hate it... You know this is not right but you have to do it..You start hating yourself and you are stuck in a circle of change..

You change for the good around you but end up changing the entire equation and hence get new variables....The unwanted variables...

You wait for sometime for things to settle... For things to take a new turn... because then you will get back to the constant in your life again and have the same equation... But does this really happen...

Obviously not...  So in a nutshell...

You change... 

But is the new change pleasant? 

Will the people (friends.family,love etc.) around accept you... Most importantly will the people who have always been around you accept the new you??

If they do.. it's good... but what if they don't ... whose at fault in that scenario.... Me because I changed and couldn't live up to expectations or he/she for not understanding the reason of change..

If you can answer the above question then you can sure as hell answer the below one...

Is it justified for us to not change because we are scared that people who have always been around will change towards you???